Self- Love : The Priority

As human beings we are mostly dependent on each other for love, happiness, appreciation etc. But it is not possible to always have people around you. You should be able to motivate, energize and appreciate yourself. As your happiness depends on you and not on other's. Be your own cheer squad.

Every human being is different and that's why the word unique exists in society. But somewhere we all try to imitate someone. We all need to understand that everyone has their own qualities and struggles. One should get inspired by it but should not compare or copy the behaviour.

When your best friend tells you that they believe you. You feel more confident and good about yourself. But why wait for someone to believe in you. No doubt, it is good to have someone like that. But if you don't have one,then just be that person for yourself. Believe in yourself and appreciate it. Belief is something which can change your way of living and thinking depending on what beliefs you have. So make sure you have a positive mindset.

Laughter is the best medicine as they say. So make yourself laugh and spend good time with yourself. Don't be harsh or take yourself too seriously. Sometimes it is important to be light on yourself and enjoy the little things.

Be comfortable with who you are. Every individual is different and has their own uniqueness. Don't try to imitate someone. Get inspired by others instead of imitating them. Always remember everyone has their own struggle, ups and downs, responsibilities and opportunities. Never compare your resources with others. Always remember giving excuses is the first step to failure.

Expectations are something which the majority of the time makes you upset. Because we always make a benchmark for our happiness to which, whatever little or big happiness we get we neglect or don't care about. So don't expect in advance, don't set a target for your happiness, be happy in little things, enjoy little-little things in life. And you will see how beautiful your life is.

We as humans always depend on others for enjoyment whether it's family, friends or anyone. We are so busy keeping everyone around us happy, sometimes we forget to make ourselves happy. There is no bad thing about hanging out with your close ones or networking. But in the process don't forget to have 'me' time. Don't forget that if nobody showed up then you are there with you. Have coffee with yourself, watch a movie , go on a solo trip, maybe to a local area only but spend time with yourself to explore yourself to embrace yourself. Once you will Start loving yourself you will feel more confident and enthusiastic about life.